Ladies, stop blaming men or your partner if you are unhappy and don't blame yourself if they are unhappy. The worse thing you can do to yourself and to them is to make yourself resposible for the happiness of others, or to rely on someone else to make you happy.
You have to take care of you you. You are resposible for the happiness that is within you. You can share it. You can allow someone to enhance it, but it must already be within you. Nurtured by you, developed by you, and depending on no one but you.
If you realize that yes I am very happy with this person, but I am also happy when I am alone. Imagine the weight that will be lifted from you. Not worrying if they will leave you, how will you go on.
Remember, some people are in your life for a season and some for a lifetime, don't burden them with making you happy for however long they are with you.
Not to say that you can't let them know they make you happy, because that is a beautiful thing to share. Just don't make them feel bad if you are not happy within yourself.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
The Codemned Ones
I guess I am in the minority of being one that has never seen Jersey Shores, or any Real Life Housewife. I've wondered why the media is so popular when all they seem to show is either people behaving badly or some tragidy has happened. Then I stopped to think, after watching Stone Cold Steve Austin in an early morning movie, how obssessed we are with all of this. How many snuff films are on the internet and how many people watch. How many reality shows are out there, because it sems that real life is mor ineresting than anything a script writer can produce on paper. Supply and demand people. I just need to know one thing, Did you have to demand so much of it? We can't condemned what we demand
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
bargains baby
checked out http://www.offermyoffer.com/vouchers/detail/bargaincrazy.com/228588. There was a lot going on. Like that it showed other discount site names but all bargains showed was for Bargain Crazy. Get your exchange calculator out. all prices are in Euro's. Great bargains to be had.
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