Ladies, stop blaming men or your partner if you are unhappy and don't blame yourself if they are unhappy. The worse thing you can do to yourself and to them is to make yourself resposible for the happiness of others, or to rely on someone else to make you happy.
You have to take care of you you. You are resposible for the happiness that is within you. You can share it. You can allow someone to enhance it, but it must already be within you. Nurtured by you, developed by you, and depending on no one but you.
If you realize that yes I am very happy with this person, but I am also happy when I am alone. Imagine the weight that will be lifted from you. Not worrying if they will leave you, how will you go on.
Remember, some people are in your life for a season and some for a lifetime, don't burden them with making you happy for however long they are with you.
Not to say that you can't let them know they make you happy, because that is a beautiful thing to share. Just don't make them feel bad if you are not happy within yourself.
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